To play the leadership role, it is not how much soft or hard you are telling in voice, rather it is how much you are telling in heart & soul. The essence of leadership is to make the follower to follow to the destination made by the leader. The followers will create and will go on according to the leading of the leader when they feel the proximity toward the leader. In this sense, proximity is like the water versus fish. So to say, the leadership is totally the inner control of a person over another person or schools of person. The intimate love & belongingness of the leader will determine the perpetual walk up to reside & survive in the mind of the follower. The beauty of the leader is the strict guidance of the discipline; on the other hand, the rude of a dictator is the strict command of the disciple.